Listen to this podcast on penis size on Spreaker or wherever you listen to your podcasts. In this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast, you’ll hear our experiences with lots of dicks. If you’d like private sessions with either of us and are new to femdom phone sex, that post will begin to answer many of your questions.
Ms Olivia: “Welcome to The Weekly Hot Spot where kink meets conversation. Each episode we explore the psychology of power exchange, share real world BDSM dynamics, and explain the art of distance domination. I’m Mistress Olivia here with my friend, Mistress Erika, and we talk a lot about what we do with a penis. but you noticed that we’ve never done a whole podcast on da dick? Walk us through how you came up with this.”
This episode could be a Dick Review
Ms Erika: “Well, just like we say in every episode, hit us up, let us know your thoughts, questions, and ideas.. A naughty J-O-I pet, let’s just call him Sub J said, “I don’t recall you doing anything on penises. Do you have any podcasts on penises?” We both know, Olivia, why he asked about that. Right.”
Ms Olivia: “Yes.”
Ms Erika: “It’s because every guy is concerned about his cock, especially penis size. Sub J didn’t ask because he’s itsy bitsy. Jay is about average, about six inches. But I think most guys want to know what women think of their penis, right?”
Men want to know what women think of their cock
Ms Olivia: “Hence, all the names. You know, I actually, we should do an entire podcast on names of penises.”
Ms Erika: “Oh, I think that would be so much fun. Schlong. Long John.”
Ms Olivia: “Pants puppet.”
Ms Erika: “Pants puppet! I’m telling you, I was looking at a fantastic pants puppet the other day.”
Ms Olivia: “Really? Do tell.”
Femdoms talk about cocks
Ms Erika: “Oh yes. And as I’m talking to this person, their cock just keeps getting harder. They’re not touching it. Harder. And then suddenly it just starts doing the little wave, like left up the thigh, off the thigh, and then back down again.”
Ms Olivia: “Hello. I love that wave. You know it’s just fun! Oh I just thought of something. Sometimes my mind puts their penis in a party hat. And then I laugh with the wave. Folks, I’m not laughing at the penis unless it’s a funny penis. That would be perfect for a clothed female, naked male, CFNM, or humiliation kind of a scene.”
Ms Erika: “Oh. Oh.”
CFNM humiliation idea
Ms Olivia: “Stand there and do a helicopter with your penis just so that I can watch it go bouncing around.”
Ms Erika: “Well, you know, we did have somebody enter the small penis contest on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. Did you see? It was a penis with a little Santa hat and a smiley face.”
Ms Olivia: “Now, see, that’s festive. A small penis cannot do the helicopter. Honestly, folks, this is not a small penis humiliation podcast, no matter what I’m talking about now. Getting back on track, the title is Your Penis, Size, Sensitivity, and Secrets of a Femdom.
How sensitive is your cock?
Ms Olivia: “Here’s a serious question. Can you actually train a penis to be more sensitive?”
Ms Erika: “More or less? Absolutely. I think we can. But let’s talk a little bit about what that means. Okay. So less sensation, more sensation versus numbness, right? Having less sensation means you don’t feel as much. So think of wearing two condoms. The sensation you receive is less. A numb penis is when you can’t feel it when you touch your penis. So sometimes we do use numbness to lessen the sensitivity for erotic purposes, like numbing spray, right?”
Numbing spray and penis sensitivity
Ms Olivia: “Numbing is perfect when you have someone that is into orgasm denial but can’t wear a chastity cage.
Ms Erika: “And then… Oh, I love that idea. Yes.”
Ms Olivia: “Mm-hmm.”
Ms Erika: “So if you’re following along, then conversely, when we say more or increase sensitivity, you feel more. Any stimulation, any touch feels more intense. Like every little breeze seems to whisper Louise.”
Ms Olivia: “You’ve heard me tease Slut Pie about flipping his slut switch. Hello pie. Boing. Very sensitive. Do you have a favorite way to increase sensitivity?”
Femdom tips to increase penis sensitivity
Ms Erika: “Well, there are several things you can do. And as we talk, think about this.”
Penile sensitivity is linked to either nerve compression, routine stimulation habits. You can only touch like this and eventually you become desensitized to it.
It all has to do with blood flow as well. So if you’re thinking about creating more sensitivity, you want things to create more blood flow. Conversely, if you want it to be less sensitive, then you do rote things or unpleasant things, the way you touch, to desensitize to that stimulation,
Cock rings and penis size
Ms Erika: “Cock rings keep that blood engorged. It can make the penis more sensitive.”
Ms Olivia: “We did a whole podcast on cock rings. Folks, if you need info on cock rings, listen, get in touch and we’ll send you links to that podcast.”
Ms Erika: “Mm-hmm. Absolutely. Mm-hmm.”
Chastity and your cock sensitivity
Ms Olivia: “What about chastity for this?”
Ms Erika: “Well, chastity should allow the penis to receive less stimulation while wearing it. But here’s the important part. If you’re using the cage or the cock ring, to reduce the blood flow, thereby reducing the sensitivity, that is the wrong way to go.
The actual wearing of the cage is the desensitization. It limits your ability to feel. If you take the cage off and you feel still numb or less sensitive, you’re not wearing it correctly and you should get a different cage. You could actually cause damage. Remember, nerve compression is good, but not long term.”
Ms Olivia: “Yes.”
Different kinds of chastity cages
Ms Erika: “Now, different chastity cages do different things. For example, wearing a chastity cage that is really fully encased. When you do come out, the penis could be more sensitive to stimulation because no stimulation actually increases the sensitivity.
So if you abstain from touching the penis, whether it’s a chastity cage or manually, when you are able to touch, it’s going to feel so much more.”
Ms Olivia: “Yes.”
Increase your penis sensitivity
Ms Erika: “So take a break. And when we say take a break, we don’t mean five minutes. We mean don’t touch in a masturbatory way or sexual way for a week, two weeks. That will increase the sensitivity. So one little touch. Oh, my you guys know that, right?”
Ms Olivia: “Oh, absolutely. And you know, they violate that instruction all the time.”
Ms Erika: “Yeah.”
Ms Olivia: “You know how I know? They stick their hands in their pockets like, oh, I’m going for my keys. I’m going for my wallet in my front pocket. And you look at their hand when they’re naked or clothed and their thumb is doing the, I’m going to poke it with my thumb move.”
Ms Erika: “And guys, if you’re doing the pocket ball play thing, we can tell.”
Ms Olivia: “Oh, we always notice.”
Ms Erika: “We know where your hand is. We don’t just think your hand is in your pocket. We know exactly where it’s going.”
Sissy training and chastity
Ms Olivia: “Now, a lot of times a sissy will talk about wanting shrinkage and wanting to be put in permanent chastity. Is that a fantasy or a real thing?”
Ms Erika: “Yes and no. Can you wear a chastity device every day? Can you wear a chastity device every night? Absolutely. But at some point you’re not going to glue the lock shut. That’s stupid. You have to come out. You have to clean. You have to inspect. You need to make sure everything is correct. Can you live a long time in chastity? Yes, but it’s not quote unquote permanent.”
And guess what else happens, right? Things atrophy. And that’s what’s happening with penis shrinkage. When you don’t use it, you’ll lose it just like any muscle or anything else on your body. If you don’t use it, you’ll lose it. So it becomes more weak and it does appear to be smaller.”
Feminization question
Ms Olivia: “So speaking of feminization, I had this question recently. Can I be a sissy with a clitty, but still want to use my cock for pleasure sometimes? Or is that cheating? What do you say?”
Ms Erika: “Well, I would have to know the person. This is highly subjective to the person. In some way, when you’re engaged sexually, you’re using your clitty at some point, right? So.”
Sissy asks if she should say clit or cock
Ms Olivia: “No, I think it’s more the name. Can I be a sissy with a clitty, but then also still use my cock?”
Ms Erika: “Gotcha, gotcha.”
Ms Olivia: “So calling it a cock, calling, you know, doing the hand grip kind of a thing. Or is that cheating?”
Ms Erika: “Mm-hmm.”
Ms Olivia: “Like, am I not feminine?”
Ms Erika: “Where’s the rule book?”
Ms Olivia: “Thank you, thank you, thank you. My short answer to that was, you do you, boo.”
Ms Erika: “There is no rule book.”
Sexual fears of men
Ms Olivia: “You mentioned this at the very beginning. The single most common question, worry, or concern for people who have a penis has to be size and performance questions.”
Ms Olivia: “So we’re going to start off this section with this question. Do you know why Santa Claus has such a big sack?”
Ms Erika: “I do not know. Why does Santa Claus have a big sack?”
Ms Olivia: “Because he only cums once a year.”
Ms Erika: “Hahaha.”
Men worry about sexual performance
Ms Olivia: “Okay. So this actually is a question, performance question from actually a couple people:
“Why do I lose my erection the moment I feel truly dominated, even though I’m mentally turned on?”
Ms Erika: “Mm-hmm.”
Ms Olivia: “One of the cases, it was during some very intense erotic humiliation and I think there was anal play.”
Another time someone was sucking a cock, like a real cock, and lost their erection and said, “I’ve been fantasizing about this forever. What happened. Why did I lose my erection?”
Ms Erika: “Mm-hmm. Well, just to put you at ease, fellas, any woman who does not realize this about the male penis really shouldn’t be involved with a person with a penis. Mm-hmm.”
The penis is a very fragile thing, right? The erection can be a fragile thing. And if some of our younger listeners are listening in, I’m going to tell you, things change as you get older.”
You can still be extremely sexually aroused and turned on without an erection.”
Ms Olivia: “At the time this happened he was sucking cock.”
Why does he lose his erection even though wildly aroused?
Ms Erika: “Let’s take that for example. Here’s something you’ve always wanted to do. You think a hard penis is indicative to how aroused you are. We know it’s not.”
It’s just a matter of where your focus is, right? Your focus is not on your dick. And actually it really fucking shouldn’t be at that point. Your focus should be on that dick.
You’re there to suck it and please that dick, not your own. You’re here to follow Mistress’s instructions. That takes a lot of brain power. And if you lose your erection, you lose your erection. So what? We know it doesn’t mean you’re not excited about what’s happening.”
Ms Olivia: “Have you ever had someone tell you that they take Viagra for a phone sex call? I’ve heard that several times and I’ve always been like, huh. What is up with that?”
Viagra and phone sex
Ms Erika: “Well, there is a gentleman who don’t need Viagra take it for stamina, right? So they can keep that hard cock. A hard cock feels good, whether you touch or not. The pressure of that stiff penis feels good. They like that. Maybe they want to be able to orgasm more than once. Maybe you don’t realize they’re doing it, but maybe they’ll keep going and going and going, have more than one orgasm. Or the gentleman is starting to experience some changes in his body. He’s not familiar with how to have a good release with a less than fully erect penis, and it feels better.”
Ms Erika: “So if you start experiencing erectile dysfunction, then it’s a time to talk to us about alternatives. Not that you shouldn’t take Viagra, but you know, pick and choose when you want to take it. We’ll teach you how to masturbate differently, still be able to achieve an orgasm and not have to have a fully hard dick, even though it does feel better. And I think for most men, it’s because stroking a hard dick just feels better than half hard.”
Ms Olivia: “And they’re also visual creatures. So they look down and they go, I could like split diamonds with this.”
Ms Erika: “True.”
Cums too fast
Ms Olivia: “So speaking of hardness. Here’s a common question, why do I come so fast? And can you help with that? I’ll answer first. Yes. Yes, we can help with that.”
Ms Erika: “Yes.”
Ms Olivia: “Absolutely we can. Now you answer it.”
Ms Erika: “Why do you come so fast is because you’ve trained yourself to come so fast, darling. A lot of times men’s experiences is that they have to sneak one off and you don’t have a lot of time to do it. So actually reversing that process using some techniques we spoke about earlier can absolutely improve your stamina and longevity.”
Ms Olivia: “Oh I see what you’re saying.”
Ms Erika: “Right.”
Ms Olivia: “I see what you’re saying. That’s interesting. I’ve never thought about it that way.”
Is Big Dick energy about penis size?
Ms Erika: “So guys really let go of that. I mean, we say that guy has big dick energy, but you don’t know for sure. He’d just be a very confident guy with an average size penis. There are a lot of guys that are like, that’s what I got. I’m going to deal with what I got until maybe you find yourself on the under average spectrum and then you turn it into yes.”
Ms Olivia: “Absolutely. Small penis humiliation is tons of fun.”
Ms Erika: “Yes.”
Ms Olivia: “Okay. Final thoughts. My final thought is..I love a penis that is half hard. Because then it’s like, ooh, you’re ready for me. It’s sort of like the man is the sous chef and gets all of the preparation ready. And then I get to assemble the dish.”
Ms Erika: “Yum. Oh, yes.”
Ms Erika: “And my final thought is guys, I like your dick just the way it is. It’s just a matter of what we’re going to do with it.”
Ms Olivia: “Preach. Okay, what are we going to do with your dick?
Get in touch:
DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia
Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire. Blog: Experienced Mistress
Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com. Blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Ms Olivia: “So Erika, final question. What do men drink when they are jerking off?”
Ms Erika: “I don’t know, Olivia, what do men drink when they’re jerking off?”
Ms Olivia: “A fappuccino.”
Ms Erika: “Bye.”
Ms Olivia: “Thanks for joining us, friends, and happy fapping.”
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