What questions do you have about feminization, being a sissy or pretty much anything else to do with being femme?
- Are you a closet sissy?
- Are you a crossdresser on the down low?
- Or maybe, are you proud of being femme and want to share that with a woman who appreciates you?
Today’s episode of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast answers listeners question about feminization. Here’s the Spotify link to listen to the Being a Sissy episode – you’ll find us wherever you listen to your podcasts.
Questions about being a sissy
Ms. Olivia: Welcome to the Weekly Hot Spot: kink conversation, BDSM advice, and insight from the worlds of Distance Domination and phone sex. I’m Mistress Olivia, here with Ms. Erika.
The topic, the title is Being a Sissy, What Do You Want to Know?
So we’ll be talking about feminization, how to be a sissy, femme questions, and of course, our fucking potty mouths and me taking you on safari.
Ms. Erika: I don’t know about you, Olivia, but I think it’s true for both of us. Every week I’m getting emails and comments on Twitter, and I love it with all your questions and comments about what we do.
Today we’re talking about those sissy questions, right?
Who can you talk with about feminization?
Ms. Olivia: Exactly. And we get a lot of questions from people who are new to the podcast or new to you and me and find us through the podcast. Are you hearing from a lot of people that have never told anyone about wanting to be feminized, wearing panties, being submissive, wanting to explore their femme side? Are you hearing from a lot of people like that?
Ms. Erika: Yes, absolutely. They’ll say something like, I’ve never really told anybody before but you guys seem so welcoming and open and honest.
They’re just desperate to share part of themselves with somebody and I love being that soft place to fall. I love being that person you can trust with your confession.
Ms. Olivia: Oh, Erica, are you talking about your boobs saying that you’re a soft place to fall?
Ms. Erika: Yeah, put your head right here on the girls, they’re nice and pillowy.
Ms. Olivia: We’re going to motorboat you while you’re in that little lingerie outfit that we put you in.
Ms. Erika: Olivia, I don’t know if it’s because of sessions or not, but as we’re talking, I have the girls in my hands and I’m motorboating your face.
I am very, is it a method actor? Is that what they call it? I actually act it out.
Ms. Olivia: OMG! So, Erica, I’m doing the same thing. I’m grabbing my tits as I said that. We got your soft place to land right here, buddy.
Ms. Erika: Perfect.
Ms. Olivia: I’ve got to tell you about this email that I got just recently.
“I have been listening to your podcast on Spotify and I have never felt so submissive to a woman. I would love to be sissified and feminized by you and serve you.”
Now, we’ve got gotten emails like this, but this was really interesting. He says,
“I am a Dom Master normally.”
So it sounds like he is in the fetish community. He’s a Dominant, maybe even a Dungeon Master. And he says,
“I want to switch and explore my sub side.”
Now, isn’t that a great email? How common is it for someone who is dominant in lots of other areas, but loves either exploring or being submissive when in them? Is that common for you?
Ms. Erika: It’s not very common, but it’s not unheard of, right?
It comes from one of two places, I think. Either somebody is exploring in the very beginnings of their journey and they’re trying on the different “hats”, which is fine. It’s beautiful.
Or maybe like this person who wrote that they are a Dom Master. They have been in the lifestyle so long they want to try something different. They want to experience maybe the opposite side of the coin.
I believe that diversity is the spice of life.
Variety of erotic desires
Ms. Olivia: You mentioned that in an earlier podcast. And what did you call it? It’s a psychological term. Novelty! That’s the word.
Ms. Erika: Yes, novelty. Our brains love novelty. Our brains are actually hardwired to become more ignited with interest in new novel things, that’s part of our species of why our brains got so big. (
You know, the dynamic between our diet, environment, and the adaptation of learning about new things, we became really great at it. That just doesn’t go dormant when you know all these things.
We still crave novelty. So whether it’s in a Dominant / submissive situation, if it’s just a hobby that you have, or let’s say, I don’t know, kayaking or trains, your brain always wants something new. So try something new with your hobby. And if your hobby is dominating, there you go.
Ms. Olivia: Speaking of Dominance and submission, I was talking to Amanda and I said, hey, we’re doing this, this podcast, questions about being a sissy. And do you have any questions?
Sissy Amanda says:
“Well, you know, in reality, men, whether they want to admit it or not, are not as dominant as they think they are.”
And then Amanda used the example of men saying, where do you want to go? And she said, dominant women won’t ask. She’ll tell you what to do. Amanda continued, “ And he, if he’s smart, he’s going to get up and go do exactly what she wants. That right there means he’s lost one ball.”
(laugher) That’s it.
Ms. Erika: Absolutely. And, in some theories and some musings of my mind, understanding evolution … I just posted on Twitter last week about a neuropsychologist who explained in very short terms, because it was a TikTok, regarding all mammals starting off as females. Females created males to carry DNA. So in some respects, we all start off as female. It’s just unfortunate some are turned into males. I’m kidding.
Ms. Olivia: Well, we do, we love guys. And first of all, we love their dicks. Okay and yes, we’ll admit, it’s funny how easily you’re manipulated.
And think about it. What we do with feminization, with domination, with submission is we kind of highlight the undercurrent that’s already there.
Ms. Erika: Sure, in our Western society, men are the patriarchy. They’re the, they’re the leaders. They’re the dominant ones. But how much effort do men go to changing their behavior to please a woman in order to have access to sex or access to her?
Ms. Olivia: This brings up a thought for me and I’m going to take us off on an excursion again, once again.
We do phone sex. We log in, we take calls, we do sessions in online domination.We have people that write to us, text us, and interact with us. At a certain point, if someone hasn’t called, you get the feeling whether or not that person is someone that actually wants to call, or if they’re kind of scamming for a free session.
I will actually spend a fair amount of time with someone that I think is legitimate, needs help, wants help, et cetera, but there’s a kind of person … you know it when you see it, right?
Ms. Erika: Absolutely.
Ms. Olivia: What I’ve learned doing this job is a man who wants something will make it happen.
He’ll fucking make it happen. He’ll figure out how to make it happen. And so if someone is contacting me or us and they’re saying, oh, I’m just not able to do a session, I’m like, yeah, okay. I mean, I don’t fault him or anything, but it’s sort of like, tedious.
Let me give you an example of what I mean. There’s one person who lives in California. We had been trying to connect all week and were missing one another. He must’ve gotten up at like five or six o’clock in the morning, pacific time, to call me. I said, holy cow, it’s really early for you. And he goes, I wanted to make sure that I got you.
Let me tell you something that right there made my panties wet. That’s amazing, right?
Ms. Erika: That’s right. Effort and really proving it all with your actions to back up those words. And you’re absolutely right, Olivia. If a man keeps coming up with excuses, whatever it is, whether it’s what we do here or in your personal life, if a man wants to spend time with you, he will move heaven and earth to spend time with you.
Masturbation questions from a crossdresser
Ms. Olivia: Exactly. So speaking about spending time, listen to this email.
“I’ve been listening to your podcast for a while. I’m a cross dresser who loves heels and lingerie and sissy dresses. I love to masturbate with the woman on the phone, especially if she likes to masturbate too. I often masturbate while dressed up as listening to your podcast.”
Yay.
So there are two questions:
How do you feel about people masturbating to the podcast?
Ms. Erika: I think it’s sexy and keeps us on your mind. um, but I want that to translate to more contact. So have fun but if you want to make my panties wet you gotta be in my ear.
Ms. Olivia: You know what, that’s a really good point.
I know that when I make your panties wet, I’m in your ear because we’re doing the podcast.
Ms. Erika: So short answer, uh, masturbate away, get dressed, masturbate while listening to the podcast, have at it.
Ms. Olivia: Then this caller also wanted to know, do you like to masturbate on cross dresser or feminization calls? Erika, do you?
Ms. Erika: The feminization and cross dresser calls are so diverse. So I have to say it depends on the subject.
If we’re caught up in a role play or a fantasy, um, yes.
If we’re just talking mechanics like I want you to practice your walking maybe not so much. So it depends on the call and the same person can have those different types of sessions.
I don’t know if our listeners realize that, but somebody may call for a role play call where I feminize them, where I coerce them or I’m their girlfriend and I kind of walk them through all the steps until one day they wake up and they’re fully in makeup and clothes.
For others, the next time they call, they just might want to talk about what it’s like to be a woman and their trepidations of going out. People are not pigeonholed into one type of call.
Ms. Olivia: And if a sissy is masturbating while listening to the podcast, she needs to do pillow humping for sissygasms. That’s the only requirement.
And if you don’t know what pillow humping for sissygasms is, that’s part of the sissy training program calendar and sissy trance audio that we did. You can email either of us for links. I got this comment on the trance audio. I think she also sent it to you as well.
Trance audios for sissy training
This sissy says:
“I listened to the trance audio and I keep seeing Jenny in the mirror. I can’t walk unless it’s in heels. I keep going for Jenny’s clothes instead of my male clothes getting ready for work. What have you done to me? But I did listen last night. It was definitely worth it. I’ve tried free ones I’ve found on Spotify and YouTube, but this was quite a bit more intense.”
What a nice compliment.
Ms. Erika: It is. And Olivia, sissy training is so popular. I am blown away by how many different programs that we are selling lately. And the trance audio, you’re right. There might be some okay free ones out there, but you get what you pay for. We put our experience and our knowledge about females and wanted to become females to good use with these programs and the trance audio.
Ms. Olivia: You know, if we’re going to put something out there, we want it to be a fantastic value.
This is an interesting question from Christina Giselle.
I asked her if she wanted to do a question for the podcast, and she asked:
“What five traits make a sissy a bimbo?” She added: Giggle, giggle, giggle.
And I’m like, well, that lil giggle, giggle would be one of the traits, right?
Ms. Erika: Yes, that’s perfect.
Ms. Olivia: Overall, when talking about a genetic male who is dominated by a dominant woman I think five traits kind of depends on the Mistress, the sissy, and the relationship between the two people. Also is the person a sissy, a crossdresser, trans, or feminized but still male. Then, there are power exchange questions. Is the person sometimes a sissy, sometimes submissive or even sometimes Dominant. There are so many ways to go.
But do you think there are five traits that are common to most sissies?
Sissy or bimbo?
Ms. Erika: Well, that’s that’s interesting. Sissy or sissy bimbo. Again, it’s such a dynamic category.
For a sissy, I would say five traits could loosely be interpreted as the desire to:
- be feminine or more feminine, right?
- emulate women in both their comportment and their speech
- to experience sex and sexuality as a woman.
Now, if you’re talking sissy bimbo, we’re going to bump it up to a different level:
- You are vapid as a bimbo.
- You have very little concern about anything outside of your pretty panties and your little satin dress or whatever it is
- If you’re into cock, your IQ as a bimbo just drops.
Ms. Olivia: Yes, you lose one IQ point with every cock sucked.
Ms. Erika: Yes. And you just might end up saying, I’m a bimbo.I’m so sorry. I don’t know anything except how to suck a cock or how to put on my makeup.
Ms. Olivia: Okay, I know I’m taking this off on an excursion, but why are so many bimbos blonde? I’m a blonde and I’m not a bimbo!
Ms. Erika: So it was bimbos and also the ginormous tatas, right? I mean, have you ever known a sissy bimbo that wanted small breasts? No, they want them gigantic. They don’t want to be able to touch their fingers on the outside of their breasts. They want big bazooms.
Ms. Olivia: That’s right.Tatiana, if you’re listening we’re thinking of you! She has huge breasts and is a slutty sissy!
Ms. Erika: Exactly. So a lot of sissies are sluts.\
Girl talk on feminization calls
Ms. Erika: But there are some girls who call us that want to talk about clothes and feminization and are not at all interested in anything explicit or sexual.
Ms. Olivia: Right. And just call for girl talk and lovely girl talk. One of those people is Charlotte.
Ms. Erika: Yes, sweet Charlotte. Or I’ve recently started calling her sweet treats because she likes to send me little sweet treats in forms of, you know, the panties she’s wearing or that she just sent me a picture of the beautiful little flowered summer dress that she just bought.
You bring up a good point, Olivia, because she actually comes to us for girl talk, for camaraderie. She is absolutely one of the girls. And it really isn’t sexual at all. And she loves the feeling of belonging and being part of a femme group.
Ms. Olivia: Oh, now, speaking of girls who love girl talk, We’ve interviewed Yvonne on the podcast.We love Yvonne.We talk about her a lot.
Ms. Erika: I love her on Twitter, too.
Ms. Olivia: She posts some of the most gorgeous bridal gowns ever. And she has turned me on to so many gorgeous gowns and stuff.
Anyway, I was talking to Yvonne and I said, hey, if Erika and I hadn’t told you about the podcast, would you have come across this as a BDSM kink podcast that also has a lot of feminization and sissy tips? And she said she would have never found the podcast if we hadn’t told her about it.
Yvonne said:
“I am totally enjoying The Weekly Hot Spot podcast and am learning so much. You and Erica make a great team.”
Oh, thank you, Yvonne.
Ms. Erika: Oh, that’s so sweet. Thank you.
Ms. Olivia: So speaking of showing us a little bit of love, listeners, if you want to show us a little bit of love then subscribe, like, and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.
As always send us some more questions, comments, et cetera, for a future sissy Q&A, feminization Q&A type of podcast.
Ms. Erika: Yes. I love it. We love to be of help.
Ms. Olivia: We do!
Contact the Femdom hosts of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast
Ms. Olivia: Here’s how you get in touch.
My email is Olivia at EnchantrixEmpire.com.
Twitter is MistressOlivia1
And my blog is Experienced Mistress
Ms. Erika:
My email is Erika at EnchantrixEmpire.com.
Twitter is Erika Enchantrix.
And my blog is Intelligent Phone Fantasy.
Ms. Olivia: OK, we’ve covered a lot in this episode, including a bunch of excursions. Here’s a final question from a sissy:
“If you had an hour to spend with us as your femme self, what would you like us to do together? “
Ms. Erika: Now, I am already thinking of that.
Ms. Olivia: Let’s end with this email from Lexi. She went on vacation and she sent this from the road trip. She writes:
“Today, I am sitting on Lake Michigan listening to your show with Duchess Willow.”
Ms. Erika: Oh, that was a great show. We love Duchess Willow.
Ms. Olivia: Lexi literally took us on a road trip!
I will say this, if you take us on the road, pull to the side if you need to pull anything else.
Remember, friends don’t let friends jack off while driving.
Ms. Erika: Words of wisdom sage advice.
Ms. Olivia: That’s all the advice we have for today.
Thank you for joining us. We’ll see you next week.
Bye.
Bye.
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