Listen to our voices in this podcast episode about folks who have a foot fetish. We ask Do sexy feet get you all excited?
Olivia: Welcome to the weekly Hot Spot: kink conversation, BDSM advice and insight from the worlds of distance domination, and phone sex. I’m Mistress Olivia here with my bestie, Ms. Erika, and we love summer because of strappy sandals, flip-flops, bare feet and more.
So let’s talk about our love for all of you who have a foot fetish. If you’d like to listen to this podcast episode click on this link for Foot fetish: Do sexy feet get you all excited?
Ms. Erika: Yes, it’s a foot fetish celebration today, Ms. Olivia, but let’s not forget about our kinky pets who enjoy foot play but it might not necessarily be a fetish.
Difference between fetish and kink
Ms. Olivia: Good point! So before we get started, kink versus fetish. We often use those terms interchangeably, right?
Ms. Erika: Just for clarification, a fetish is something that the person needs to have sexual satisfaction. So I found an explanation that might be a little bit easier than my words. It’s a form of sexual desire in which gratification is more strongly linked to a particular object, activity or part of the body than the typical sexual organs.
So feet absolutely come into play. When it’s a fetish, feet must be present either in thought or in action in order to feel satisfied. A kink, on the other hand, is just something sexy you like to do. You can give or take it.
Ms. Olivia: I often use those two terms interchangeably. And honestly, on this podcast, I suspect I’ll be using the terms interchangeably because, let’s face it, when a woman is on the receiving end, I don’t care what anybody calls it, it feels really good.
Ms. Erika: Yes.
Ms. Olivia: I don’t think we need to make that distinction, but it kind of helps people understand where they are in their desires, right? We are not just smutty perverts. Okay, wait a minute. We are smutty perverts, but we also really want to kind of educate people.
I think this is part of it. The people that call us are smart people and we are smart people. So we talk about smart things and then get smutty and pervy.
Ms. Erika: Dangerous combination.
Ms. Olivia Yes, it is. I’ve noticed that I’ve been getting a lot of calls and inquiries and questions about sexy feet, pretty toes, luscious legs, any of the combinations. Today, I think we’re going to focus primarily on bare feet, but there are all kinds of adornments to put on those lovely bare feet, right?
Toe rings, anklets and jewelry for pretty feet
Ms. Erika: When you talk about adornments, what might come to everybody’s mind is jewelry, right? So everybody’s familiar with toe rings or anklets. Or you can even adorn your feet with stockings or cable knee socks. But there’s something very interesting I just found out, Olivia, and maybe our listeners can help me with it.
I love jewelry for my feet that has an anklet and then a toe ring attached. I’ve always called them barefoot sandals or an anklet with a toe ring, but I recently came across a term called mittens for that item of jewelry. Isn’t that interesting? Mittens. Have you ever heard of that?
Ms. Olivia: I never have. I mean, I just call them anklets. Yeah, because they almost look like the tops of sandals where you’ve got… You have beautiful feet, Erika.
Ms. Erika: I do. And I have one for a special pet who wants to give me a call. I’ll share it with you. And I’m wearing a beautiful mitten with a sticky sandal. Do you know about sticky sandals?
Ms. Olivia: You turned me on to sticky sandals, gosh, a couple of summers ago. Now explain what sticky sandals are, because that sounds weird. It sounds like you just stepped in bubble gum or something.
Ms Erika and her sexy sandals
Ms. Erika: So take your typical flip-flop, where you have the rubber base and then you have the thong that comes from it and secures your foot to the flip-flop. Well, a sticky sandal… And actually, I’m not getting paid for this. I just love these sandals. It’s called StickySandals.com, and it’s just the rubber sole.
On top of it, it has a sticky substance, but it’s not like glue. You know when you get Tupperware at the store and the label is attached with some sort of gummy type thing?
It’s sort of like a fine film of that on the sandal. You just put your foot on it, squish it down, and it stays until you peel it off. It doesn’t hurt or anything. It just really sticks.
I have so many mittens. I have pearl mittens and crystal mittens and all those things. And I love to wear them with my sticky sandals.
What do women think of someone with a foot fetish?
Ms. Olivia: Oh oh, there are boners popping up all over the place listening to you right now. Which leads us to our very first question from a listener.
Do women find a foot fetish weird?
Well, I’m sure there are some women who think that it’s weird, right? But we don’t. I love exploring foot fetish fantasies.
Ms. Erika: It’s all about who you create your circle around. So find open-minded people. Surround yourself with open-minded people, and you’ll find less and less people that are going, ew, what feet? Ew, yuck.
How many gay men are aroused by feet?
Ms Olivia: I think it’s pretty interesting that nearly 20% of males have a foot fetish. They like feet. That according to a Belgian study.
We know a lot of people in Europe are nice and kinky. We talk to a lot of those people.
Did you know that nearly half of people with a specific body part fetish, like a boob fetish, or ass fetish, or I don’t know, an elbow fetish. Belly button fetish.
Ms. Erika: Belly buttons. Oh, that’s right. Belly button fetish.
You partner and your foot fetish
Ms. Olivia: Lots of people love sexy feet. Now, how do you find out if a new paramour feels the same way?
If you say to that person, I love feet or I really have a thing for feet. She might be like, what? Or even think it’s a little offputting. There’s a way to do this that has a better chance of success.
How to get her to love your foot fetish
Ms. Olivia: Try this, tell her that you know she’s had a stressful day. Ask If you can rub her feet. She’ll likely appreciate that. It’s the rare woman who would say no to that offer.
I think most women love to have their feet rubbed, don’t you think?
Ms. Erika: I mean, even as part of foreplay to relax and get us in the mood. There is a lot of interest in feet.
Ms. Olivia: There are a bunch of different words for sexy feet and the foot fetish genre. We actually really do research stuff for these podcasts. We’re not just pervy.
We don’t just try and educate you, we are also educating ourselves and each other. Researching for this podcast episode we found a loot of foot fetish facts. And, Erika, you found some weird ass fucking words.
Fun words for a love of sexy feet
Ms. Erika: Yes. And just like everything, Olivia, that we talk about on the podcast, we do take your desire seriously. But life is short. Have a little bit of fun. We’re not bringing up any of these words to degrade you (unless that’s what you want) we’re just having some fun. That said, listen to this.
The piano man.
Have you heard of that term? This is for all of the Billy Joel fans who love toes. I just learned this. So a piano man is when a girl gives a foot job and a shoulder massage simultaneously. Now, you might think this is a little game of kinky twister, but it’s not.
So let’s imagine myself or Olivia sitting against the headboard, right? Our backs are against the headboard. Our lovely legs are splayed out nice and wide.
And our victim, I mean, our pet is between our legs. His back is up against you and your arms are around your shoulders and our legs can sneak up around those hips and rubby, rubby, rub, dub, dub on that dick. What do you think? I’m down for that.
Ms. Olivia: As a matter of fact, I’m thinking of a couple of people that would love that! I’m never going to listen to Billy Joel the same way.
Now, I must tell you. One of the words that you found that I absolutely love is soulmate. S-O-L-E. I think that’s great for the pun.
Ms. Erika: It is. That’s the one that won for the pun. The most punniest.
Ms. Olivia: What other terms?
What is shrimping?
Ms. Erika: What about this, shrimp job or the shrimping. It has nothing to do with seafood. We’re not putting seafood between our tootsies.
Shrimping is a slang term for an act which involves licking or sucking on the toes of your partner. The term originates from the physical look of our little toes because of their curled shape. So people who like to shrimp or to be shrimped often have more of attraction to the toes versus the entire foot.
Ms. Olivia: Or you just really like shrimp. I guarantee there’s gonna be some Creole seasoning on dem shrimpies.
Say, have you noticed that a lot of fetish terms and especially foot job terms also include food?
Ms. Erika: Yes. Well, we just spoke about shrimping. And there’s another one. Turkey foot. That doesn’t sound very sexy, does it? I think we’re trending a little bit to the humiliation side of things.
Here’s the origin of the term turkey foot. According to a comedian, Jim Norton, this is the act of shoving the bulk of someone’s foot into your mouth and licking their toes, which results in the individual making noises like a turkey, like it’s a more extreme version of shrimping, I would imagine, right?
Ms. Olivia: Wow … Billy Joel, Jim Norton, any turkey’s on Thanksgiving, you’re changing my whole world view.
Do women like having our feet worshipped?
Ms. Olivia: So back to the question of do women like it? There are lies, damn lies and statistics. I personally think this is higher than this number. But according to one study, only 5% of heterosexual women have a foot fetish. But I suspect if more women were exposed to foot worship, they would like it in part because of the sensations, right?
Ms. Erika: Oh, absolutely. And if we can put our societal conditioning aside. The thought that the foot is dirty or somehow nasty and not part of an erotic experience because the reality is our erogenous zones appear all over our body.
Scientific reason why foot worship feels so good
Ms. Erika: Here’s something very interesting that we found, right? Let’s look at the map of the brain. We all know that certain areas of the brain have more dominance over different things that we do. Listen to this.The part of the brain that’s responsible for processing genital arousal, The somatosensory cortex, is right next to the part of the process for foot sensation.
Ms. Olivia: So they’re neighbors.
Ms. Erika: According to that neurological evidence, the prevalence of a foot fetish is probably very biologically rooted.
Ms. Olivia: As they say in real estate, location, location, location.
So according to research, 5% of heterosexual women have a foot fetish and and 11% of bisexual and lesbian women apparently have a foot fetish.
BellaDonna, who is one of my all-time favorite porn stars, has tons of videos with her sucking on her own toes, the toes of other ladies, and other ladies sucking on her toes.
The intended audience is, let’s face it, probably men. But she’s also got to be popular with lesbians. She’s certainly popular with me.I’m not a lesbian, but I am bisexual.
Oh and finally 21% of homosexual or bisexual men have a foot fetish.
But I don’t know if that’s a foot fetish for women’s feet or men’s feet. Have you ever seen any porn with a man sucking on a man’s foot?
Ms. Erika: They don’t do a lot of cool things with their toes.
Ms. Olivia: No, and typically it’s more of a humiliation bent, right? Sexual humiliation versus sensual celebration of the feet and desire for feet, right?
Ms. Erika: Yeah, I could see that.
Foot fetish party at a fetish event
Ms. Olivia: Now I’m going to go down a rabbit hole and start searching for men sucking on other men’s toes. So listeners, if any of you know anything about gay male toe sucking, get in touch. Let’s create, say, a foot fetish party.
Erika, you and I are the party planners. We’re setting everything up. I actually did this at a fetish event and it was tons of fun.
Ms. Erika: What would you put in for the various stations?
Ms. Olivia: I think for sure there’s got to be foot pampering and foot worshipping stations, right?
Ms. Erika: Oh, absolutely. Getting those pedicure skills up to par.
What about foot worshipping stations that include kissing, licking, and sucking? Of course that has to be there, right? But there’s so much more that we can do other than that, right?
Ms. Olivia: Well, if you think about it, foot play can be standalone. LOL So that pun was unintended. That’s really a Freudian slip.
Ms. Erika: Oh, no, we just had a slip and fall. Let’s call the lawyers!
Ms. Olivia: hahahahaha
Humiliation and foot play
Ms. Erika: I think I love to use foot play as part of another scene. And since you brought up humiliation before, I really love adding humiliation. But that’s kind of a little bit different.
That’s a little bit more into the BDSM aspect and a little bit more into the mean Mistress aspect.
Ms. Olivia: This can be part of the strict Mistress, humiliation Mistress kind of stuff and it’s intense in a different way than worship and massaging and licking and sucking. Right?
Ms. Erika: Giving pleasure is your position and purpose in life, pet.
Ms. Olivia: So when you have a foot slave, how do you act? Are you sensual, mean, both?
Ms. Erika: I can be both. And it really depends on the play partner. I mean, what we do generally is we have our storehouse of what we like, right? And from that, we can’t expect everybody to have such wide boundaries as we do. But I do find sensual foot love, including everything, the pedicure, the jewelry, the pampering, the massage, so beautifully bonding to two people. But sometimes having a little foot slut gag on my toes is a lot of fun too, if the pet is experienced with that humiliation.
Toe sucking and cock sucking
Ms. Olivia: Sigmund Freud said that the attraction to the feet is because feet look like a penis. I don’t know what kind of penises he was looking at, but I’m not so sure about that. And listen, he did a shit ton of cocaine. So who knows? It might’ve looked like a little dick to him.
I will say that a foot fetish can be kind of a preparation for coerced bi, suck my toes like you would suck a cock type of thing. It can be a precursor to suck my strap on, suck my girl cock all the way to, all right, now you’re ready, suck a man’s dick, you fucking slut.
Ms. Erika: Oh, that would be good. What if we set up a sensual station and the humiliation station, using words and actions like you just mentioned, hammer home and raise up that arousal? Because as we’ve talked about before, that humiliation is pain for your brain.
So bitch, lick my fucking feet clean. And don’t you fucking tickle me because I’ll kick you right in those fucking nads.
That anxiety and the adrenaline pumping is what makes some submissives really, really become weak and obedient, right?
Aroused by dirty, smelly feet
Ms. Olivia: Now you mentioned dirty feet. Is being aroused by dirty or smelly feet always humiliating? Maybe, maybe not. 
Ms. Erika: Well, it is great for cruel teasing because you’re not supposed to like those things, right? I wrote a blog many, many years ago. It’s about the process of scent in humans. We’ve evolved to not like bad scents because it might mean bad food and it will kill us. So our brains are alert for anything that smells foul, anything that smells not right, We have a natural aversion to. But not everybody has that conditioning and earthy scents like you’re barefoot in Florida in a leather boot all day can be incredibly arousing.
I think there’s some people that are very visual and then there are some that are very attracted to different scents and they don’t have that ‘some scents are bad’ conditioning. So earthy scents are very arousing. They don’t necessarily find it humiliating.They just find it interesting and arousing.
Ms. Olivia: That’s a really good point.
That’s one of the reasons why as a Mistress, it is so important that I talk to the pet, listen to the pet, and then figure out where they fall on these various continuums, right?
And when someone talks about a foot job, they might not mean anything to do with pampering, massage, or humiliation. They want trampling. So that can often be, oh gosh, CBT with high heels, like literally walking on the penis or balls or sucking on the high heel, right? So it can kind of mean Mistress scene, which I have to admit, that’s fun. Not all the time, but fun.
Ms. Erika: Oh, absolutely. We’d love to let our little inner sadist out once in a while, don’t we?
Ms. Olivia: Yes, we do. And the inner sadist can also be done in a very sensual way, right?
Ms. Erika: Yes. Because the person is like, oh, oh, oh, and you keep saying no and then removing your feet.
Or, imagine a foot slave underneath your feet. I’m not going to worry about balancing myself or trampling him. I’m imagining sitting on a stool or a chair and just smashing the ball of my feet in the nose or for a sensual tease, just gently stroking, taking your feet away, making them beg for it.
Ms. Olivia: You can vacillate. Just like with most sexual activities, the more aroused you get, the less your inhibitions and the more you might be able to be open to receiving a little bit more strictness or like we just said a moment ago about smelly feet. Don’t be surprised if you’re a clean foot aficionado, but as your arousal increases, you find maybe it’s even more arousing to smell a little earthy scent.
Ms. Erika: That’s very possible that when those inhibitions are down, you are introduced to new and different types of stimulation including the words combined with the scent and the visuals and the touch. Foot fetish aficionados know that all of the senses are involved. Your Mistress saying, oh, that’s it, darling. Adore my pretty toes. Yes.That feels so good.
Or laughing and saying, yeah, we’re going to go shrimping today. Say that in public, right? For example, this is a great way to set up and tease a partner long before you actually do anything.
Ms. Olivia: You can send a text. For example, what are you feeling like for dinner? I’m craving shrimp, how about you? And then you send the shrimp emoji and the eggplant emoji and the spurt emoji.
You can ratchet up the heat with a little bit of public exposure too. If you’re at a restaurant and the waitress arrives and you say something like, “Honey, I’m really in the mood for some shrimping, aren’t you?” Your partner knows what you’re talking about.
You know what? Speaking of food, we should absolutely have a dessert station.
Now play parties have a food area set up, generally a buffet. You should absolutely combine foot play with a dessert station and then, oh, Erika, sploshing and foot worship.
Ms. Erika: Oh, I could just imagine my little tootsies adorned with some whipped cream or with maybe little cut up strawberries between the toes that he gets to pluck out and enjoy.
Ms. Olivia: Edible oils are also good for that type of play. My personal favorite for edible oils is coconut oil. Oh, and when I give a traditional foot job, I use coconut oil because, hey, I might want to go down and just give a little blow job along with that foot job. And I don’t want to be licking up olive oil. It’s just like a personal taste thing. Coconut is fantastic because your partner tastes like a snack.
Ms. Erika: Coconut shrimp.
Ms. Olivia: We could have coconut shrimp. You went there, Erika.
Ms. Erika: Well, one of us has to. Isn’t it in the contract? One of us has to go there.
Ms. Olivia: You never know what you’ll hear. BDSM and kink education combined with some fun, weird humor. Now, it’s time for:
Final thoughts and questions for listeners
Ms. Olivia: Do you have a question for the listeners?
Ms. Erika: As we started the podcast, I want to know, do you think that you have a foot kink or do you think you have a foot fetish? And, does it really matter? You could just start kissing now. Come on. Do it.
Ms. Olivia: So I’m still fixated on the edible oils. Do you like olive oil or coconut oil better for a foot job when you’re on the receiving end of the foot job?
Do you like it when your cock is between a beautifully arched area, just toes just rubbing back and forth in the soles? That would set you up for a fantastic day.
Get in touch with the hosts of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast
Ms. Olivia:
Twitter X: @MistressOlivia1
Blue Sky: @MsOlivia
Blog: Experienced Mistress
Ms Erika:
Twitter and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrix
Blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Ms. Olivia: You found an excellent quote to end with.
Ms. Erika: I did.
“Men, if you’re going to have a foot fetish, please at least pay for the pedicures.”
Or in my case, the foot jewelry and the mittens.
Ms. Olivia: And with that, we are going to slip on our strappy sandals and walk on out of here. Thanks for joining us.
We’ll see you next time for the Weekly Hotspot.
Bye.
Bye.
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