Hot, kinky, naughty and taboo — your Mistress hosts explore what makes a cum fetish and why eating your own cum is so sexy.

Welcome to The Weekly Hot Spot: kink conversation, BDSM advice, insight from he worlds of Distance Domination and phone sex. We are your hosts:  Mistress Delia and Ms Olivia. Weekly Hot Spot podcast Cum Fetish

Get ready to salivate — today we’re talking about the cum fetish!

Ms Olivia:  Hi Ms. Delia – do you like cum eating calls?

Ms Delia:  Oh, Ms Olivia, I love cum eating calls so much. I bet you do too.

Ms Olivia:   I do. I actually have a blog, Coached to Eat Cum,  that I haven’t posted on in forever. So I’m going to start posting on there again, I promise. I promise. So let’s talk about the cum fetish. What is it? What is a cum fetish

What is a cum fetish?

Ms Delia:  The cum fetish is very interesting because everyone knows what semen is. All men produce semen and men, women, it doesn’t matter, are fascinated with that semen, with that seed. And it can present itself in lots of different ways as we will go through in the podcast.

We’ll go through all of the different ways that there can be a cum fetish. It’s going to be a very hot talk we have today because cum eating is a popular fetish.

Cum Fetish podcast 1-800-601-7259What is it about cum eating?

Ms Olivia:  I think there are some people who crave cum.  We call them cum junkies or cum dumpsters or cum addicts.

Science doesn’t really say why they crave cum. It’s a mystery.

Maybe it’s the taste. Maybe it’s the act. Maybe it’s the eroticism.  Maybe it’s the naughtiness. Maybe it is because you are swallowing semen from a man’s sexual organ. It could be anything.

From cum eater to cum fetish: one man’s journey

Ms Olivia:  There is a caller and you know him, Michael, he initially talked to me and Amber about becoming a cum eater, eating his own cum. 

And it took awhile for him to actually get over the very common for first-time cum eater problem. I call it the cum and go syndrome. As soon as you have cum to eat, you hang up or you lose the urge to eat your own cum.

So it took him a while to get beyond that. Well now he is a dedicated cum eater!  You talk to him, you like Michael. Cum Eating for Mistress Olivia 1-800-601-7259

Ms Delia:  I think that Michael is absolutely fabulous. I have been talking to him for years and each year he sets a different goal for himself, a different goal that sets for him that challenge to eat X number of cum loads. 

Now when he first started talking to you, I think that his goal was 300 or 350 cum loads. Now this past year in 2019, Michael had the goal to eat 1000 cum loads, whether they were his or someone else’s, he wanted to eat a thousand cum loads. And if you think about the math, that’s a little less than three cum loads per day in a year. Which to me was amazing. 

And I will tell you that I spoke to him early in December of 2019 and he was already past his 1000 cum load eating goal.

When we last spoke that he was going to make it to 1100 cum loads eaten for the year. Amazing. Right? 

Ms Olivia:  That is amazing. I talked to him and asked him: Is it the taste? What is it? Why do you have this cum fetish? 

Eating cum as a submissive

Eat your own cum for Mistress Olivia 1-800-601-7259Ms Olivia:  And this was interesting. He said that the cum taste triggered something in him. It is arousal. Yes, obviously, but it’s also contentment or bliss or mild euphoria. He described it as so naughty and so yummy. 

He called it a specialized form of subspace and said that taste is the trigger into submission and subspace. I think cum eating is a very submissive act when you eat your own cum for your Mistress.

Ms Delia:  Oh yes. There’s that. That vulnerability immediately that a man can feel doing something that almost seems taboo, that that seems a little scary, a little naughty. It can make him feel completely vulnerable, but it can also get him into that very good sub space because he is doing what Mistress tells him to do.

Ms Olivia:  And, let’s face it, If Mistress tells you to do something that you already want to do, well then big deal. 

Part of being a Mistress is being able to push someone to do something that’s a challenge. 

You know, it’s the difference between climbing or hiking Pike’s peak and driving up to Pike’s peak. The two people get to the top of Pike’s peak, but the experience of arriving there is very different. 

I think that’s the same thing of being a submissive. When you are submissive to your Mistress, you want challenges to be able to prove your level of submission and cum eating is a perfect thing for that. 

Of course, in the dynamic of power exchange and power dynamics, the Mistress could also tell you that in conjunction with teasing, either gentle or mean, and it turns into an erotic humiliation thing.  But cum eating itself is not necessarily automatically humiliating. I don’t think so anyway.

Ms Delia:  It can be humiliating, but it also can be highly erotic. Cum eating is one of those things that men really love or men need to be brought to. ~laughs~

Ms Olivia:  Now we have a request. We know that a lot of you are listening via Apple podcast. Please do us a huge favor, subscribe to The Weekly Hot Spot podcast like it and leave a review on iTunes. 

Ms Delia:   Do you know the thing that I really like about the cum fetish? 

Ms Olivia:  What?

Ms Delia:   I love that it is not specific to just women or just men and it’s not specific to any sexual orientation. The cum fetish really is in both genders and across all sexual orientations.

Ms Olivia:  I was shocked at a poll that I read; they were asking who has a cum fetish:

 24% of the respondents said I’m a guy and I have a cum fetish. 

32% said I’m a girl, and I have a cum fetish.

32% said, huh, I never thought of it. 

And then 18% said, I think it’s gross.

Ms Delia: The poll is very divided. You don’t have a very strong showing for either one. But what fascinates me about that is that 24% of the guys do have a cum fetish for this poll and 32% of the girls do. That’s not a huge difference mathematically.

Ms Olivia:  Absolutely. And of the nearly one third that say, I’d never thought of it. 

I truly think that if you’re cruising around the internet and you’re kind of looking at, Ooh, what’s popular, what’s interesting, what’s naughty and what’s taboo? 

A lot of people never had a cum fetish. They stumble across some cum eating porn or cum fetish porn and all of a sudden they’re introduced to this kinky, new taboo thing.

 The internet can connect all sorts of cum worshipers from all over the world who absolutely love posting photos, videos, stories, clips, all of this kind of stuff about their cum fetish. 

And someone who might not have initially said, “Oh yeah, I have a cum fetish.” stumbles across that stuff and says, “I wonder what this is about.”

Cum fetish Mistress Delia 1-800-601-7259Ms Delia:  Oh yes. And it’s, it’s really interesting to me when you talk about cum fetish porn or just porn in general, helping you to develop a cum fetish

You can’t watch porn without seeing cum. It’s there at the end. It’s the whole point of porn in so many ways. And I could see people getting a little bit obsessed with cum just because of that experience of seeing the cum. 

Maybe men are more obsessed with that creamy white fluid because it comes from them.

I talked to a lot of men who love watching all kinds of cum shot porn and I think it’s a comparison to themselves. 

But with women, women think a lot about cum sometimes about half of them do and a quarter of the women can’t stand it. I mean I get that.

That last 25% love it. And I think you and I both would be in that last quarter of women who absolutely love cum and like to do things with it about it. Watch it, enjoy it.

Ms Olivia:  Absolutely. So let’s go over the different types of cum fetish.  

Cum fetish porn videos are incredibly varied. You mentioned the money shot. Did you know where the money shot comes from? 

It’s all about the money shot

Ms Delia:  You know what? Tell me.

Ms Olivia:  I didn’t until I started researching for this cum fetish podcast. And listen, I’m a geek. I’m a geek in all things and especially when it comes to porn and sex. I think this is the coolest damn thing ever. 

So this equally geeky woman did a professorial study on porn. She’s a film studies professor at Berkeley and the book is called Hardcore Power: Pleasure and the Frenzy of the Visible.  That’s a great title. 

Ms Delia:  I love that title. That is amazing. 

Ms Olivia:  The book is a little pedantic, but here’s one of the takeaways that I got from it. 

The money shot can be traced back to the premiere of Deep Throat, which was in the early seventies.  

The money shot, as we know it today, is that he always pulls out. He comes on her belly or her ass or her tits or her face. 

That didn’t really come into huge depictions in terms of porn until the 1970s and now it’s almost a chicken and egg kind of thing. Did the money shop porn make blowjobs more popular or did blow jobs? Deep throat is a porn movie about blowjobs. She has a deep throat. She can take it deep. Or who cares? It’s hot.

Ms Delia:   It is hot, and I think really, who cares? I think that is so true. Who cares? It’s becoming really fun now. So which came first? The chicken or the egg, I don’t know. But the cum fetish is even getting into our world. 

Steak and Blow Job Day

Ms Olivia: You’re absolutely right about it getting into our world.  February 14th is Valentine’s day pretty much for women. In response, men created March 14th as Steak and Blowjob Day.

Ms Delia:  I mean, why not, right? It started as a joke and the dude’s answer to Valentine’s day. What can I get for you? Steak and a blowjob!

Ms Olivia’s sex holiday calendar

Ms Olivia:  So you have February, Valentine’s day, then you have March steak and blowjob day. You have April, which April 15th is tax day and everybody knows that you get screwed without lube. And then in May you’re back to more sex with Masturbation May with that little bit of political commentary in there. 

Fetish porn favorites from Mistress

Absolutely. So let’s talk about cum fetish porn favorites.  My favorite is point of view blowjob porn. What’s yours? 

Ms Delia:  My favorite cum fetish porn visuals are … so I don’t know what it’s actually called. Let me tell you. Let me just describe it. 

So the man cums inside the woman, you don’t see it. But my favorite part of that is when there’s another woman there. So it’s a man, two women, she is positioned between the woman’s legs and the woman moves so that the camera angle is right on her pussy and his cum starts flowing out of her into the other woman’s mouth on her face, on her fingers, like just getting that amazing white sticky cum all over her. I love that. I love that. That is my favorite. 

History of cum eating

Ms Olivia:  Well, you know, according to the history of cum eating, she is eating a superfood. It’s full of incredible ingredients. So not only is she, uh, doing something naughty, kinky, sexually arousing, but she’s also getting her vitamins and nutrients.

Ms Delia:  I absolutely love that. And if you think about it, sperm is used for fertilization. So sperm has to have all of the nutrients, vitamins, and minerals into it to ensure proper fertilization. So it has to be healthy, it has to be good for you.

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Ms Olivia:  You talked about her getting kind of covered in cum. Let’s talk about some of the various ways someone is covered in cum and loving it. 

There are various stories where people talk about their first experience encountering cum and putting it on their body or putting it on their lips in the point of view porn that I love to watch. Bukkake porn is really big. I like the spray.

Ms Delia: The spray of cum can be an impressive thing.

Ms Olivia:  I also love cum facials; cum on tits. 

I love when that, well, there’s a reason why they call it a money shot, right? You see it and some men cum a lot, some men shoot a lot. 

I did this call with this one guy and he was masturbating. He hadn’t come for a while. And he goes, “Oh fuck.”  And I said, “What’s wrong? What’s wrong?” And he goes, “I’m going to have to repaint my ceiling.” ~laughs~

Ms Delia:  I absolutely love that. I talked to someone who can have multiple cum shots, like multiple money shots and he can get up to 10, 12 come spurts per ejaculations. It’s amazing.

Those HUGE cum shots in porn

Ms Olivia:  Not every man can do that. So how do they get those huge cum shots in porn?

FreezingCumMs Delia:  I have always wondered that because some of these cum shots in porn are so impressive. 

When I was researching this podcast, I learned that a lot of the cum shots in porn are fake. And I have to tell you I was a little disappointed, but I was fascinated too.

Ms Olivia:  There are actually recipes of how to make fake cum, which I find that fascinating. 

Even when I know that some of those cum shots in porn are fake, I sort of don’t mind.

I don’t really mind. It’s kind of like what I look at a woman’s tits and I know that she has fake tits. As long as it’s kind of a well done boob job, I don’t care that they’re fake tits. 

So as long as the fake cum looks good, I don’t care if it’s fake cum.

Ms Delia: I think that that makes a lot of sense. And I agree with that. 

There are actually companies that are putting out different kinds of lube. They’re making this fake cum something that will be convincing and will look realistic on camera.

Ms Olivia:  ~laughs~ I love that. But now remember people, this is our PSA. In order to get the nutrient value of semen, you have to eat real semen.  Just like your fruits and vegetables, boys and girls, eat that cum; cum is good for you!

Ms Delia:  Exactly.

Ms Olivia:  The people that don’t like to eat cum, the single most common complaint is; “Ewwww, I don’t like the taste.”  Some people say cum tastes bad or it tastes weird,

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Ms Delia:  But you can actually sweeten your own com. So there are recipes to help you to make your cum taste better and sweeter.

Ms Olivia: My top advice for making your cum tastes better is: don’t eat asparagus.

Ms Delia:  That really is an excellent tip. 

Also, you can avoid smoking. You can avoid drinking coffee and red meat and probably some dairy and throw in your onions too. So really you’re getting rid of all the good stuff, but your cum is going to taste so much better. 

And I feel sorry for the people on steak and blow job day. Right? Because if he’s going for a steak and blowjob, she’s going to be like, “Oh, I’m so sorry you had red meat and asparagus. I’m not giving you a blow job.” ~laughs~

Ms Delia:   Exactly. And he probably had a drink too and smoked a cigar and oh, it’s just ruined.

Ms Olivia:  Personally I kind of like the spunky creamy naughty taste of cum. You know if it, if it tasted like ice cream, it wouldn’t be taboo. 

Ms Delia:  Exactly. 

Ms Olivia:  One of my most popular audios ever was a thing where I just listed off in a row all of the different names for cum:  Spunk, splooge, semen and I just go on for like a minute and a half and then I ended riffing on Shakespeare. Cum — by any other name is still is naughty,

Ms Delia:  Cum can be naughty, but cum really is a very sexy fetish.

Ms Olivia:  We started with Michael. I want to close with Michael. 

One of the things that I absolutely love about this caller is that he kept an open mind through every interaction with a Mistress, whether he was talking to Amber, me, you or Ms Erica, who we absolutely adore, all of us were saying, “Hey, listen, if you don’t like it, you don’t have to do it again. Why not give it a try?”

I think that’s the biggest thing to communicate to anybody, whether or not you have a cum fetish that is either fantasy or in reality, just give it a try. Why not?  What can you lose? You don’t have to do it forever. You don’t lose anything. You don’t eliminate your man card by taking a taste of your own cum. And who knows, if you develop this cum fetish you will join the ranks of people who absolutely adore the taste of cum.

Mistress Domme Kink Hot Spot Adult Podcast 1-800-601-7259Ms Delia:  That is perfectly said. And so very true. 

And I actually say a very similar thing when I talk to someone who is curious about eating cum.  

A lot of you know, you’re curious about come eating and you’d really like to try it and that’s why a Mistress can help to guide you to eat your own cum, to just try it that one time. And yes, maybe we do know that if you try it that one time, the sexual response that you’ll get from eating your own cum is so incredible and so strong that you might just get addicted to cum.

Surefire way to taste your own cum

Ms Olivia:  You know what I have people do? I tell them, “Okay, come in the palm of your hand or like on a plate or something and as you’re coming, bring your hand up or the plate and just dip the tip of your tongue in it.”

He might be able to dip the tip of his tongue in his own cum but then he says, “I can’t go any further than that.” And I say, “Well congratulations! You are now a cum eater!” It’s just a matter of degree at this point.

You know, it’s sort of like a, the old joke about would you sleep with me for 10 bucks? Oh, what kind of woman do you think I am? Would you sleep with me for $1 million? Absolutely. Let’s go.

To which he asks again, would you sleep with me for $10? And she says, “What kind of woman do you think I am?”  He says, “We’ve already established that now we’re just haggling over price.”

Ms Delia:  Exactly 

Ms Olivia:  It’s the same thing with cum. Once you dip your tongue in, you are now a first time cum eater and once you’re a cum eater you can never take it back. You may not want to continue it, but you definitely are a cum eater and some of the cum eaters move on and have a cum fetish.

Ms Delia:  I really like how that happens. It’s like that little secret that a lot of men have. 

We saw that today in the poll. We see that all the time when we have our very sexy cum eating calls and we can talk to men and help to increase their curiosity about eating cum:  just tasting it, talking about it, exploring it. And that I think is what helps to grow more and more and more of a cum fetish or grow a stronger interest in cum.

Ms Olivia:  Mmm. Beautifully said. 

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Ms Delia: Thank you so much for joining us today for another episode of The Weekly Hot Spot. We’ll see you next time.

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