Special Guest “The Scarlet Mistress” joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for a special edition of the podcast.  Listen as we talk about strapon sex from the perspective of the woman doing the pegging! This is a trifecta of sexy naughty as your hosts reveal what they love, why they love it and more.

Curious about what these these ladies say on a phone sex call? Ms Scarlet tells you about pegging in her own private life. Ms Erika weaves a lush fantasy about a sexy, slutty sissy. Ms Olivia talks about her favorite fetish play space and what she’d like to do there.

The Weekly Hot Spot podcast kink BDSM Femdom phone sex 1-800-601-6975Ms. Olivia: Welcome to The Weekly Hotspot, kink conversation, advice, and insight from the worlds of distance domination and phone sex. I’m Mistress Olivia here with Ms. Erika and our very sexy and naughty friend, Ms. Scarlet. 

Welcome, Scarlet. I love doing 2-girl calls with you. I know you are a super good friend to both of us. We’re thrilled to have you on the podcast. This is going to be fabulous.

Ms. Scarlet: I was so excited to get the invitation. I was like, Ooh, really? Erika and Olivia? Oh, and strapons? And pegging? It’s a dream come true. Thanks for having me.

Ms. Erika: It’s the trifecta of kink.

Ms. Olivia: And we’re going to get to the “bottom” of things. Somebody had to say it. 

Today, pegging and strapon sex from the woman’s point of view

Now we’re going to try something a little bit different. We usually talk about kink and sex, but we don’t actually do the role-play scenes similar to the scenes that we do in a phone sex call. So I’m excited about this, but I’m also nervous. How are both of you feeling?

Ms. Erika: Olivia, when you brought this idea to me, I was very excited, but I’m also a little nervous, because we don’t want to go too far. I mean, we’re not giving a session here, but I’m very excited. Ooh, my nipples just got hard thinking about the naughtiness that happens in sessions.

Ms. Scarlet: I’m totally with you, Erika. I think it is so super hard to talk about pegging and strapon and I love doing sessions about it, but how unique and original that I get to share my perspective as a woman. It’s such a totally different view indeed. So I’m excited about it. 

Ms. Olivia: Now to our listeners, we are not going to give you full sex scenes. We’ve got to save something for our sessions. But ,we are going to give them a little bit more than just a tease as we talk about pegging and strapon sex from the point of view of a woman. So it’s going to be a little bit of a taste of what it’s like to submit to the strapon of a very sexy woman in charge.

I also have to tell you both this idea was the idea of a very special caller of mine. He said, “I want to know what it’s like for you.”

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Ms. Olivia: Tell us, in a couple of sentences, the thing you love about wielding your girl cock. I’ll start. I like that he or she submits and is penetrated. Like the lyrics to Closer by Nine Inch Nails. “I want to fuck you like an animal, from the inside.”

Ms. Erika: Fuck yes, I love possessing the traditional symbol of power. The phallus. It really is a representation of that power exchange and I’m absolutely in love with it. 

Ms. Scarlet: Yeah, it is about that power exchange and you’re so right about the visual part personally. I love the word “My.” I get so totally turned on when I teach a man that it’s my cock. It is a strapon. It’s a dildo, but it’s my cock, right? A total extension of me. And I think that’s what gets me the hottest. 

Ms. Olivia: Can I take us on a little excursion here for a second like I am wont to do? We’re going to take the exit. We’ll get back on the strapon sex interstate in just a second. If I could have one physical wish now, I would still want to be completely a woman. I don’t want to give up my vagina. No way. But I would love to have a dick like a real actual male working cock.

Ms. Erika: “Calling Dr. Freud!” I’m teasing, but I am absolutely with you. Wouldn’t it be fantastic to feel that just once? 

Ms. Olivia: I should probably put a time limit on that real actual cock, because I suspect if I had a real cock, I would be like a monkey hopped up on Red Bull. I’d be calling and saying, “I’m an uncontrollable monkey, Help me!”

Ms. Erika: “I’m a chronic masturbator! I need help!”

That reminds me of a meme I saw last week. If men woke up with a vagina, what their fingers would look like. They would be all pruny, same thing for them. They would not be able to stop touching.

Ms. Olivia: See Scarlet, this is your fault because you’re the one that said it. It is an extension of me. 

Ms. Scarlet: You know what? I feel a little different than the two of you, which I think is really interesting. I don’t want to know what it’s like to have a cock. I just put on my blog yesterday that my body is a temple and I’m a Goddess and you worship at the temple kind of thing. 

I’ve been working on this tantric stuff and about my Yoni and I’m really embracing even more of the power of the pussy. So I’m really feeling so powerful there. It may just be a phase, but right now, I want to have my pussy and then I want to strap on a dick. I could totally see that it might be interesting to know what it might physically feel like to have a dick, but right now I’m good with just my pussy. 

Ms. Olivia: All hail Goddess Scarlet.

Talking About Previous Pegging/Strapon Podcast

We did an earlier podcast that was all about The Guide to Strapon Sex and Pegging 101.

That podcast was about all sorts of things including what the whole sense of what it’s like to have a strapon used on you, how to prepare, how to think about the whole experience. A total Strapon and Pegging 101. We answered questions as well and addressed a lot of common worries and concerns. But it was even more. What is strapon sex? What is anal sex? How do you prepare mentally for it? 

Then we had a long conversation about strapon harnesses and Delia mentioned Rodeoh Harnesses. And I have to tell you, I have my own designed and made-for-me strapon harness, but I got the Rodeoh harness, which is like a little pair of panties. It’s like the bikini panties or boy shorts with the cock inside.

They are super comfortable and I think it’s because they are made for women by a woman. The company is created and owned by women. So I think they get it that the teeny tiny strapon strap that’s supposed to be so sexy because there’s super skinny and stuff like that. The dick flops around. It doesn’t really feel like it’s firmly attached.

I just took us on another excursion, but that’s okay. 

Ms. Scarlet: I have a little side road to that excursion. I have been thinking back to my first personalized strapon harness and the thin leather straps and how it was fitted and cut for me and my body. I wrote about it because it got me so turned on on a phone call when I was sharing it with someone.

They said, “You should write that, write about that.” So I did. It’s just like what you described. It’s like when you get one that’s just for you, it’s not just out of a package, but it’s for you and your body. It really helps make it feel a part of you. And it’s easier to use when it’s fitted and made just for you. It was made at the Purple Passion/DV8 in New York City, in Chelsea. They cut it right in the store.

Ms. Olivia: Mine was created by a woman that makes saddles, professional detail work on saddles. I put it on and I loved it!

Ms. Scarlet: Isn’t a strapon harness like a saddle? Just put a dildo in.

Ms. Olivia: I know we went on an excursion, but they are important to this podcast and we know you like them, right?

Ms. Scarlet: They are real conversations. 

Ms. Olivia: Here’s the format we’re going to follow. We’ll each do a couple of scenes. One with a man and one with a sissy, a crossdresser, or a transwoman. At the end of the scenes, we’ll come back and do a wrap up and answer questions that we have asked you at the end of the podcasts.

Before things get all steamy, we need you to do something for us. You can help if you subscribe to Apple podcast or whatever app you use to listen to podcasts, like us, and leave a review. We are moving up in the charts, like your dick is going to rise listening to this podcast and that’s fucking amazing. We do this with your help and support of The Weekly Hotspot.

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Now to the sex. 

I’ll go first. Since this podcast was inspired by a specific suggestion, I’ll set the scene. When I get a call, a lot of times what I do is I take a deep breath. I breathe. I get all centered. I might kegel just to get my pussy feeling right for what we are about to do. I want to be aroused when I close my eyes so I can feel I am in my favorite fetish play space.

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This is the living room in a private home. The living room is huge. It’s where people hang out. There is a stockade in the center of the living room, which is really fucking awesome. The first time I saw that in a private home, I thought, “I want that furniture.”

There’s a wrap-around couch, but near the couch, there are big chairs, smaller than a loveseat, but much larger than a single chair. And it’s shaped like a loveseat with a high back and high sides.

I am wearing my favorite strapon harness with the strapon attached. I just look at my submissive who has been worshipping my ass through the entire party. I just bent over and he slid his tongue up and down the crack of my ass, getting me more and more aroused. 

Right now he’s kneeling at my feet, cradling my foot in his hands, sucking one toe and then the other, running his teeth up and down the insole of my foot. He’s taking my toes right into his mouth, sucking. I look down at his eager face, so eager to please. I also see that raging hardon of his and know he is willing to do anything and everything just for me. I gesture again and he stands up. I’m seated. I scrunch down just a little bit and he faces me before putting his knees on either side of my hips.

I begin to guide him as he slowly, slowly sinks down onto my girl cock. I watch his face as his eyes widen when that cock hits that little round rose. It begins to open him up. Isn’t this a great role reversal? I like the role reversal. I like the power. I like guiding him, showing him with my touch, what I want and how I want it. I like him looking at my face.

Erika, do you like your submissive watching your face as you enter his ass pussy?

Ms. Erika:  Oh my gosh. That connection. When we look into each other’s eyes, when I see that subtle change, when my girl cock slips in… so intimate. Fantastic.

Ms. Olivia: And Scarlet, I know that you have been to play parties. Maybe not with the stockade in the middle of the living room. If you saw something like this at a play party, what would your reaction be? What would you be looking for? 

Ms. Scarlet: Well, I have had a stockade in my living room and if I were watching you being worshiped in that way and pegging a man right there in the middle of a play party, I would want to sit back on that big wraparound sofa and I’d want my submissive… well, we’d be doing some licking. I think I would want to have my pussy worshipped while I was watching this beautiful scene. That’s definitely what I would do with as I am a little bit of an exhibitionist for sure. 

Ms. Olivia: I’m an exhibitionist and a voyeur. I also like boys, and I like girls. I’m pretty much a greedy motherfucker when it comes to sex. So I love all of this. I definitely will be watching you riding his face. 

Make no mistake about it. I love taking someone from behind when he’s on all fours, but I love seeing his face as I enter him, as he sinks all the way down. I put my hands on the tops of his thighs… right there. As I begin, just kind of rock my hips, see my dick sliding in and out, watch him feel me inside him. Looking around, I see everyone watching me giving my submissive a ride. 

I see Erika watching us. I do like this part. The power part of the role reversal. Part of it is taboo, so naughty. I love all of it.

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Ms. Erika: Oh, gosh. Well, let me just pinch myself a little bit, Olivia, that is so intimate, such a sexy scene.

I enjoy helping those who want a more feminine experience. So whether it’s feminization, transgender, or if you identify as a sissy. I love taking you as my girl. It’s fabulous.

The scene I was thinking about with that in mind, is I like describing exactly what you’re experiencing. I like to open the scene in my Mistress suite. Not in a master bedroom because that does not exist. You heard me right. You are in my Mistress suite. It’s beautifully adorned with touches of modern furniture with wonderful feminine touches.

I see you at my beautiful vanity, sitting with your back to the mirror, hands folded obediently in your lap. I stand in front of you in my short, little silk red robe. The room is filled with soft scents of vanilla and lavender, maybe a few candles, but no bright lights. I stand back and look at you. Your eyes experience my lips curling into an approving smile as I gaze at you. 

Your heart is thudding with delicious anxiety. I see you squeezing your thighs together. This is as exciting for you as it is for me. I take my time drinking you in with my eyes, roaming down every inch of my creation. That’s right, pet. You are my creation. And it is exhilarating for me to transform you.

You dress in a pair of pretty pink panties and matching bra. You feel the firmness of those white thigh highs with their pretty pink bow. Oh, there are those beautiful heels that might just be, very soon, very, very soon, be dangling in the air above your pretty head.

I smile knowing how much seeing me get ready with my strapon excites you. Your eyes upturn eagerly for my approval. And as our eyes connect, I wink at you and you blush. You’re afraid and excited all at the same time. Are you ready, my girl? You nod your head eagerly, “Yes”. With my fingers on your shoulders, I turn you to that mirror and you see my creation. That red lipstick. Those smoky eyes. As you see this, your clitty screams for attention.

My soft hand takes yours and I lead you to the bed. “Come my darling, earn your collar tonight.” I tug at the tie on my robe, the silken edges part, revealing my gorgeous lady cock. Your knees buckle as I lay you back on that bed. 

Not giving it away, but what do you think? Do you just absolutely love the tension, the excitement, the anxiety of taking that girl for the first time?

Ms. Olivia: Oh, I’m not gonna lie. I want to be that girl. I want to be laying on that bed. Oh, fucking God.

For me, the favorite part of feminization play is seeing and feeling the transformation. I’m also not going to lie, I also love the shopping and the makeup. I was just all in there. You describing, building, setting the scene, taking me right in there with you? 

Ms. Scarlet: You know, when you were describing it, I could actually see it, especially the bows, the pink bows. I love the way that simply putting on a pair of panties can even change the energy of an entire scene. 

Slipping the silk up the thighs, or especially over the cock, how it makes everything so different. It’s almost like we’re on equal playing ground now. Like now I have a cock too and we both have panties on. It’s the way a bit of feminization can make the man feel more open, sexually more raw, more vulnerable, even exposed. It takes a lot of trust and I find that incredibly arousing. 

Ms. Erika: I love that. It gives them permission to be vulnerable. 

Ms. Olivia: So, Scarlet… take us into your scene… show us that vulnerability you are speaking of, show us from your point of view how arousing it is. Give us an example. 

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Ms. Scarlet: It’s so interesting. When you told me about this, I was like, “Hmm, how am I going to do this?” Then it came to me to share a scene I had with my lover, an actual experience with him. We Mistresses like to do that from time to time, don’t we? 

What is nice is we both enjoy playing with the strapon once in a while. It did take him some time to open up about it, literally and figuratively. Sometimes it can take a man a while to open up about the desire for being pegged. That’s why we’re here. That’s why we’re doing this entire podcast. 

There are signs, though, that the idea has come over him. I would use my fingers a few times during a blow job, getting a little deeper each time and then we began fantasizing about the strapon and what we might do with it.

So for my scene, I think sharing what that was like for us would be great. We went shopping together to buy that first strapon. We picked out the perfect dildo together. Then we had the perfect combination that worked for us. It is going to be different for everybody. Sometimes people want a smaller dildo, or a bigger one. Sometimes they want different shapes or colors. We found the right ones for us.

Sometimes we’ll go to dinner and I’ll wear the harness under my dress, without the dildo. Then I will sit next to him and cross my legs in a way that he can catch a peek of the soft leather on my upper thigh. Those secret glances are such hot foreplay, right?

Ms. Olivia: That is fucking amazing! Totally hot. I am stealing that idea. 

Ms. Scarlet: I like to do my hidden trick when it is least expected and you know what else it does besides turn him on, is it helps me get into my role. That’s what we’re talking about here, isn’t it? What strapon play and pegging is like from our points of view? I will sometimes even wear the harness when we make love. I’ll just have it on because I love the way it squeezes my ass. Let’s be honest. I love the tightness and I love the leather. Sometimes it just feels right. Sometimes I’ll add the dildo to peg him slowly, sometimes while stroking him, or while he strokes himself. There are times I like to be more rough, faster and we really love that, too. 

Erika, when you called the dildo a lady cock, that resonated with me because I do love her. When my lover gives me his ass, I can really feel the power exchange in our situation. I am wielding the power, wielding a lady cock. I feel so powerful being able to do that with my lover as he bends over for me to take him.

There are those times, though, when he’s on his back watching me and I take my lady cock and rub it against his cock before I penetrate him, or I will grip my shaft and bounce my cock up against his ass or against his cock to warm him up. It is great to see that change in him as he gets ready. The look in his eyes shows the desire and the trust he has in me. It turns me on so much and it makes me feel so connected. It’s so intimate and I can see that all he wants in the world is to feel me inside. And I just have to give it to him, really slowly, taking my time, getting him ready. 

I love to hear how he asks me for it. I want him to tell me how much he wants it and I like listening to that excitement. I think that’s why, on the phone during these scenes, I love to hear that feedback. I want to hear, “Give it to me. Fuck me.” I want to know that that ass is totally ready and willing.

That’s when I usually reach down into my harness. Earlier, when we were talking about harnesses, we talked about how special it was to have your own personal one. Mine has a little pouch on the inside that’s against my vulva and I keep a little vibrator in there. When it’s time to first start penetrating, then to begin thrusting, that’s when I turn the vibrator on.

Oh, we’re supposed to save some things for the phone, right? That’s when we can take our time and work up to that full body orgasm. I like when it takes that time… sometimes a long time, but it’s worth it.

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Ms. Olivia: I’m curious, and this is for both of you, when you are pegging a man, do you have an orgasm? 

Ms. Erika: Good question. I have. There are times that I’m very easily orgasmic. So, I can. Sometimes it’s not as easy because I’m so focused on what I’m doing. You have to admit that just because you have a lady cock, you can’t actually feel it. So you’re focusing and making sure you’re both enjoying everything.

I do love that little vibrator dealio, Ms. Scarlet. I am going to be ordering my custom harness myself soon. I love that. That way I would be guaranteed an orgasm every time. 

Ms. Scarlet: Yes, the vibrator is helpful. It only presses when you’re at that right angle. I find wearing high heels helps with the angle, but it does have to be just right to get what you’re looking for.

I’m with you, Erika, orgasming doesn’t always happen. That’s not a disappointment. It’s just that it doesn’t physically always happen because I’m so focused on what I am doing. I wasn’t born with a cock, so I’m focused on making sure I’m using it right and doing it well. I do not always have an orgasm, but sometimes I do, especially with my little pocket vibe.

Ms. Erika: The more play, the more trust and that evolves into more experiences.

Ms. Olivia: That’s a really good point about paying attention because when you are taking someone who is bent over or on all fours, being behind someone is not a common position for a woman to be in unless she is in the dominant role. If you are a lesbian who’s been doing strapon play since late teens, early twenties, they might be more used to it. But for many women, that position isn’t the most typical.

One of my biggest fears was not being able to control the girl cock. The first several times that I wore a strapon, I had the harness with the wimpy little straps and I would pull on the strapon harness to tighten it and it would come away from my skin, the cock leaning forward. I didn’t feel like I had really good control over that cock. I also had to learn how to thrust, learning what felt really good to me.

Men come to these movements naturally, Women don’t generally thrust. The first time I was pegging, while I didn’t actually throw out my back out, I thought, “This isn’t all that comfortable.” I was a hot mess, but I finally sorted it all out and am really great with it now.

Ms. Scarlet: It takes experience. 

Ms. Olivia: It does.

When I think about a man being pegged, I know it’s important for him to know the woman is having a genuinely good time.

I love having an orgasm when I am pegging a man, but when I am in my Domme space, it is a rolling orgasm. That’s the mental and emotional orgasm that comes from feeling the power exchange, being the recipient of the power that is created. Domme space is the exact opposite of subspace, but it is equally as powerful. I don’t necessarily need to have a physical orgasm while I’m using my strapon.

Ms. Erika: I can totally relate to that. It’s similar to a gooner, someone who masturbates and edges but never cums, how they are so hyped up on their sexual hormones, they just don’t want it to stop. I don’t necessarily want to orgasm even though I can be multi-orgasmic at times, there are other times that when I have a powerful orgasm, I am done. I don’t want the session to stop, so the orgasm is not always the goal for me. When I am ready to be done, then I will orgasm.

Ms. Olivia: A lot of times it’s really concentrating on the actual pegging with the guy or girl, wanting to make sure it’s awesome and fabulous for both of us.

Erika, I loved hearing about the feminization scene, the sissy scene you came up with. I’m sitting here trying to think about what kind of sissy scene I would like to do. I think I will do something for a cross-dresser or a transwoman that has the connection between us as that is equally sensual and sweet, face to face experience. She would be on her back, her legs wrapped around me. It’s a flipping of the energy and I’m in a very male space, putting her in a very feminine space. 

It’s the missionary position. I’m a fan of the missionary position. I’m a fan of vanilla.

Ms. Erika: When people talk about sex and sexuality, I’m a woman first, I’m a sexual being second and I’m a dominant woman third. Do they sometimes all coincide? Yes! But I love sex and sexuality at the base of it. This all speaks to me.

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Ms. Olivia: I would love a scene for a new sissy, especially someone who has never sucked a cock. I have just the girl in mind. She might not have sucked a cock yet, but she is cock curious. So I get her all dressed up as a fucking slut.She is one slutty sissy. She is wearing thigh high fishnet stockings, high platforms with locking ankle straps, a super short skirt that, when she bends over, you can see everything. I would also put her in a pair of panties with a great big heart cutout.

I would take her while she’s looking into a mirror. I would have her bent over the chair with her hands on the seat. She would be wearing a posture collar so her head is tilted upwards. We look in the mirror and her face is all made up, those eyes with eyeliner done just right. Her lips lined and the color on them? Hot pink. I think with Mac cosmetic’s lip glass. Not lip gloss, but lip glass. It is so very sticky and stays incredibly shiny

First I’m standing in front of her and I take my cock and put it against her mouth and say, “Suck it.” Seeing the head of that cock sliding inside her sissy mouth with my hands on that shaft, just pushing in and just encouraging her. “That’s good. Good job.” 

As an aside, I love POV blow job porn. So this is living out my fantasy of getting a blow-job. So sliding that cock in and out and then telling her, “Get it all nice and wet.” I walk around her and slap her ass, then wet my cock, lean her over, grab her hips and then…

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Ms. Scarlet: I’m hooked. I’m ready to call. Where’s my phone?

Ms. Erika: Oh, that would be a blast. Three Mistress pegging? Come on, fellows, let’s make it happen.

Ms. Scarlet: That was so hot. Olivia,

Ms. Olivia: I told you we weren’t going to give away everything.

Ms Erika and making love with a transwoman

Ms. Erika: Well along the sissy route, another great experience that we have in sessions have been with transgirls. A lot of times they come to us already forming who their feminine persona is. Maybe they’re taking hormones and starting to live as a woman and no matter what you do, any skin regimen, hormones, dress, there’s just one feminine experience that you just can’t do alone.

Despite what many people may think, just because you identify as a girl, it doesn’t mean you want to have sex with men. I’m sure you both have experienced transgirls who did not desire being with men. So how are they going to experience all a girl is able to? And that is why they come to us..

You’re not sexually attracted to men. You don’t want anything to do with men, but you want the most from your feminine experience. Your brain keeps reminding you over and over, “Girls are penetrated. They do not penetrate. This is who you are.” And that ache deep inside keeps calling you to feel what it’s like to have the most feminine experience you can have.

Tonight I will show you the delights of your feminine body, those sensitive breasts from those hormones and what it’s like to submit and receive penetration. As I take you to your bed, we explore every inch of your new feminine body. And when it’s right, you will explore the pleasures of my lady cock. Perhaps I take you on your back with a pillow underneath your hips to raise you and tilt you just so. And when you climax, my dear girl, through penetration alone, you will be all woman.

Isn’t that fantastic? I love hands-free penetrative orgasms. 

Ms. Olivia: That is so powerful. 

Ms. Scarlet: Wow, Erika, that was really amazing. I know there’s such a need for that and you’re totally right. You’ve obviously had these calls many times because you do get it. I hope those listening know this. Your callers do, obviously.

Ms. Olivia: What I’m hearing from both of you is exactly what I’m feeling. I enjoy feeling in charge. That’s right, exactly. That’s a huge part of the experience.

Ms. Erika: No wonder we’re femdoms!

Ms. Olivia: Scarlet, you’re going to end the podcast with your final scene.

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Ms. Scarlet: I had no idea what the two of you were going to be sharing, so it’s interesting because this scene really is about the power exchange dynamic. As you said, Olivia, this is a running theme through all of our scenes.

I’m going to do a first time cock sucking scene. It could be something coerced of course, with a real cock. That would be hot. But I’m thinking right now I would want the guy coming to me to be a real Alpha male-type man; a businessman who runs the corporation or runs a big family. Someone who has lots of stress and people looking to him for direction and instructions, always asking for his help..

When he comes to me wanting to submit to my being his Mistress, he’s got all kinds of ideas about how that might work. Of course, I know exactly what he needs, so I get him stripped down and perhaps take even more of his power away by putting him in a cock cage if I’m in the mood. I want to get his mind right where it needs to be, where he would do anything to please me. I see him switching gears because he knows I am now the one in control. 

I have that image of when I come out of my dressing room, like Erika’s Mistress suite, I look amazing in full Mistress regalia. Thigh highs, heels, a corset… but the main thing I am wearing is that strapon harness and I’m wearing my cock. 

When I walk out I see him down on his knees trembling and he tries to talk me out of using my girl cock, thinking he is still in charge. I love that part. Then there’s the realization that this is really going to happen. He really is going to suck my cock because that’s how I want him to submit to me.

I’m getting hot thinking about it. I love taking a dominant man and getting him on his knees with my cock in front of him.

I love that long drawn out approach, stroking myself while he watches. I position myself so he has easy access to worshipping my cock. I am in a big comfy chair or on a bench at the end of my bed or even an ottoman… something where I can easily open my knees and hold my cock.

Then I summon him, with just my eyes connecting with his. Just that look makes him start crawling across the floor. His eyes are so intent and so focused on my dick that nothing else matters at this moment. He’s not thinking about anything else going on in his or our worlds. A decision’s been made right there, before he even knew it, the moment he asked to serve me.

He is about to serve and submit to my cock. I love that bit of hesitation where he’s not sure what to do next. Does he wrap his hand around it? Does he ask me what to do? Or does he just drop his mouth right onto it and turn into a full-on slut. 

I’m getting turned on, thinking about what I’d have each person listening do first. I think that’s best left to a session so I can fully enjoy it if you know what I mean, ladies.

Ms. Olivia: We do know what you mean and that is so hot. If our listeners want to hear of what your unique scene sounds like, give us a call 1-800-356-6169. Ask for Scarlet, Erika or Olivia, or if you are very brave, all three of us.

Get in touch – stay in touch with your Mistress

We want you to keep in touch. Here’s how to find us. 

Scarlet: The best way to find me is on my blog, TheScarlet Mistress.com and or you can email me at Scarlet@EnchantrixEmpire.com. And I am on Skype all the time. I love it there. And you can find me with the same name, The Scarlet Mistress. I am not on Twitter yet, but I will get there soon.

Ms. Erika: Well, my blog is IntelligentPhoneFantasy.com. I welcome your emails regarding this podcast or anything that happens to be on your horny little mind: Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com. Twitter is @ErikaEnchantrix. Come for the boobs. Stay for the fun.

Ms. Olivia: I’m on Twitter at @MistressOlivia1, but it’s best to send me an email at Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com or leave a comment on my blog, ExperiencedMistress.com. You can also leave a comment on our blog, TheWeeklyHotspot.com

Questions for listeners of our BDSM kink podcast

Ms. Olivia: We always end with final thoughts of questions for listeners. I’ll start:  I would like to know what your favorite femdom pegging or strapon scene is.

Ms. Erika: I want to know if you’re unsure about pegging, but were slightly interested, and it seems you are since you’re still here after an hour-long podcast. If you were unsure about pegging before, how do you feel about it now after you’ve listened to us talk about it?

Ms. Scarlet: I’m curious, when I’m describing my cock, as I’ve done throughout this podcast, do you prefer to hear the actual inches or just words like thick or long? I didn’t use those words on purpose to describe what I had in my harness, but would like to know what words you would love to hear with regards to pegging and strapons. As well as what to call the dildo in my harness.

Ms. Olivia: Now that I think about it, a lot of times I’ve noticed inches are not as important for most people with exception of the sissy slut who wants to take a 12-inch long, thick as a double Coke can-sized dildo up there.

Ms. Scarlet: That’s a size queen sissy slut right there. We know who you’re talking about. 

Ms. Olivia: Scarlet, thank you so much for joining us. You rock on the phone. You are amazing. Your erotic audios are absolutely off the charts. You have got to join us again. 

Ms. Scarlet: Thank you so much, ladies. This was freaking awesome. I mean, we don’t get to do this enough. We just get to hang out and talk about strapons.

Ms. Olivia: Thanks to everyone for listening. Remember, go to Apple podcast, like, subscribe, and leave a review. This was so much fun, ladies. Thank you both. Thanks to everyone else for listening, we will see you next time and until then stay sexy and bend over when we tell you to.

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